How to keep one full Shabbos — for beginners.
A simple, calm Orthodox Shabbos guide. Start with five essentials, then walk the timeline step by step. The packet is designed so you only ever look at the section you’re up to.
If this is your first Shabbos, focus on these five things.
Prepare before Shabbos
Cook food, set lights, put away your phone, and print your guide.
Light candles
Use your local candle lighting time. Welcome Shabbos before sunset.
Make Kiddush & meals
Use wine or grape juice and challah for both Shabbos meals.
Avoid weekday activities
No phone, driving, cooking, money, writing, or electronics.
End with Havdalah
Wait until Shabbos ends, then make Havdalah with wine, spices, and a candle.
Your Shabbos, step by step
The packet is organized by time, so you only look at the section you are up to.
- STEP 01
Prepare Before Shabbos
Cook, set lights, print, put away phone.
- STEP 02
Light Candles
Welcome Shabbos with candle lighting.
- STEP 03
Friday Night Prayer
Walk to shul, or welcome Shabbos at home.
- STEP 04
Kiddush & Friday Meal
Kiddush, wash for challah, eat together.
- STEP 05
Rest Into Shabbos
Quiet, conversation, sleep.
- STEP 06
Shabbos Morning
Shul, prayer, or learning at home.
- STEP 07
Daytime Kiddush & Lunch
Daytime Kiddush, washing, lunch.
- STEP 08
Shabbos Afternoon
Rest, learn, walk, talk, disconnect.
- STEP 09
Shalosh Seudos
A reflective third meal before sundown.
- STEP 10
Wait Until Nightfall
Stay in Shabbos until it fully ends.
- STEP 11
Havdalah
Mark the transition back to the week.
- STEP 12
What Comes Next
Choose one step to keep growing.
Shabbos in plain language
Shabbos (also spelled Shabbat) is the Jewish day of rest. It begins before sundown on Friday and ends after nightfall on Saturday. Observant Jews stop weekday activities — phones, driving, cooking, money, electronics, work — and lean into rest, prayer, learning, meals with family, and quiet conversation.
For Shabbos 250 — the nationwide invitation to keep one full Shabbos on Friday, May 15, 2026 through Saturday night, May 16, 2026 — the goal is not perfection. The goal is to enter the day calmly, keep what you can, and learn from the experience.
The simplest plan that works
- Find your local candle lighting and Havdalah times.
- Prepare on Friday before Shabbos: cook, set lights, print the packet, put away your phone.
- Light Shabbos candles before sundown.
- Make Kiddush over wine and Hamotzi over challah at both Friday night and Saturday lunch. All blessings are in the packet in Hebrew, transliteration, and English.
- Avoid weekday activities all the way through Saturday night until your local Havdalah time.
- End with Havdalah over wine, spices, and a multi-wick candle.
For specific halachic questions, contact a qualified Orthodox rabbi.
